Powerful Principles for Positive, Parenting (2)

Part 2

When giving a suggestion to your children make sure that they do not assume that it is a command.  You usually want the best for them but they could take it the wrong way, just by the tone of your voice.  Tell them it is only a suggestion and not a command, if that is what you want, then you will not meet with hostility.

When giving a suggestion to your children make sure that they do not assume that it is a command.  You usually want the best for them but they could take it the wrong way, just by the tone of your voice.  Tell them it is only a suggestion and not a command, if that is what you want, then you will not meet with hostility.

Children will not always do what you like because they need to experience things for themselves.  When that happens express you love for them but say that you do not like their actions.  Never say that you do not love them.  It is only what they have done that you do not love.

If you see something that you do not like your children doing, stand back and see what you are doing or have done that may have caused them to do what they are doing.  Think before you blame.

You most probably are bringing up your children in the same manner as your parents did, and their parents did, because that is what you have learned.  Once you have become “Soul Conscious” you will want to change you attitude towards disciplining your children.  Being seen and not heard does not help children to learn to communicate.

As adults our perception of love comes from out own childhood and how we experienced it when we were just feelings in our first seven years.  If your father was away most of the time earning money, you think that is normal when you get married.  You push a man away who is giving you too much loving attention because that is not love as you know it.

Make sure your children are given as much love as you can possibly give them.  They will thrive on it.

As adults our perception of love comes from out own childhood and how we experienced it when we were just feelings in our first seven years.  If your father was away most of the time earning money, you think that is normal when you get married.  You push a man away who is giving you too much loving attention because that is not love as you know it.

Make sure your children are given as much love as you can possibly give them.  They will thrive on it.

You are being inconsiderate to your children if you are doing too much for them and not teaching them to do for themselves.  You are taking away their opportunity to learn and grow, and it makes them weak.  They will become dependent on you and they will dislike you for it.

Discipline your children with boundaries so they know how far they can go.  Let these boundaries out gradually as they grow.  Children fell secure with boundaries.  They stop them from being confused.  Be consistent with your boundaries and keep them enforced until they are old enough to make their own.  They will do this if they have lived by yours and have gained respect for themselves and others.

Give children responsibility so they can feel successful.  Having responsibility also gives them a feeling of being worthwhile.  Responsibility can mean to be in charge, and they need to learn to be in charge of their own lives.  This stops them having thoughts that they are unworthy.  Make sure they are not living by yours or other people’s responsibility, only by their own.

Give your children positive guidelines by setting them a good example.  That is by loving yourself.  This is what gives you inner strength and you want your children to have the same.  So do it and they will follow.

Being overly “mothered” is as bad for the child as being neglected.

Give your children positive guidelines by setting them a good example.  That is by loving yourself.  This is what gives you inner strength and you want your children to have the same.  So do it and they will follow.

Children from 0 to 7 years never hold grudges.  They can be spanked and mistreated by a parent and they will very quickly give that parent a big hug as though nothing has happened.  I call this recycling their love and we can learn from them.  At that age they are always in their feelings and simply being themselves.  When something adverse happens too them they just get back to loving again.

Children from 0 to 7 years never hold grudges.  They can be spanked and mistreated by a parent and they will very quickly give that parent a big hug as though nothing has happened.  I call this recycling their love and we can learn from them.  At that age they are always in their feelings and simply being themselves.  When something adverse happens too them they just get back to loving again.

Your children mainly get sick because parents are inconsiderate to them.  They do it to make the parents suffer.  It is their way of rebelling.  They do not realise that in doing this, they are the ones being hurt.

Listen to your children’s feelings and learn from them how to get back into your own true feelings.  See the elf in S-elf, and put some fun in your life.

Adults hold on to grudges, want revenge and want to keep retaliating, with never a thought for forgiveness.  This all eats into your bones and bodies and that is how your sickness begins.

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